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In Goddess cultures, which spanned most of five 26,000-year cycles on the earth, except for the past 2,000 years, the women were in charge of all things spiritual.  Temples were Goddess Temples.  They taught, among other things, sacred sexuality in their communities.  This was natural because of the female design.  Her strength and power is located in the heart.  She emanates pure love from her heart and is connected to this Source. She is the nurturer.


Men's sacred design allows them to service the wife, family, and community by providing and protecting.  Their main power is in the root chakra, the area of the genitals. It is all about survival.  The flow of energy concentrated there causes them to sincerely desire to provide and protect. Their highest expression of love is to take a bullet for the one they love.


However, we can now look at the society we live in and observe  that when male power is in control, instead of being balanced with the Loving energies of the Feminine, that we become seperated from our Source Being (Love), the earth, and the intelligence of our hearts. Instead, hoarding and greed caused by the focus on the need to provide and protect, has ruled. The development of weapons has become of extreme importance.  Competition rules the day. Seperateness is everywhere.


The cycle that took us to where we are at this moment involved the males taking over control of all things.  This was unnatural, but allowed for a particular evolvement  that would not have occurred otherwise. The hidden, ugly truth is that over the course of the past 2,000 years, there was a holocaust against women.  Approximately nine million people, 85% of them women, who spoke out against the patriarchy's rule, were typically tortured naked in public places, hung or burned at the stake, being called "witches".  I dislike writing this information, but it is important in understanding what has occurred and the relevance of reclaiming what was lost.  You will not find it in history books.


The patriarchy intentionally deemed sex to be the source of all evil.  This meant women were essentially evil, because they always held the power of attraction over the males. To keep from being murdered, the women became "anti-sexual". The brainwashing is clever and all-consuming.  This has taken us away from our ecstasy.  If you pay attention, it is everywhere, controlling us on subtle levels into the very depths of our being.  People naturally believe that there should be some control over how much enjoyment of our bodies that we are allowed before we are considered evil, perverted, or shameful.  When women are young, they are trained to keep their enjoyment of sex to be that somewhere less than a man's quick orgasm.  Women keep that lid on themselves often for life to be accepted by society and also admitted into heaven.  When women are older, they do not know that sexual ecstasy is available even when hormones die down, and so give it up often entirely.  Women do not discover the capacity for ecstasy they contain. This repression hurts men as severely as women. 


I have found in my personal understanding of ecstasy that it is the fulfillment of many aspects of pleasure.  Just saying the word is so pleasurable!  Does it have a "naughty" association as you say it?  


Ecstasy includes opening up to pleasure in many areas.  These include spirituality, emotional fullness, physical sensation, connection to nature, connection to your lover, appreciation and gratitude for all experiences. 


How do we get to these places where ecstasy is expanded?  Realizing that we have had this fulfillment stolen from us psychologically is a first step.  We have been trained to be a slave to the master cause of productivity, otherwise we are useless.


We must cultivate ecstasy by reaching for it once we realize it is not shameful, but a path to spiritual fulfillment.  Be ready to open up when the opportunities are presented.  The only access to ecstasy is in the NOW moment, when the artificial limitations of mind are removed. 

If you have been stopping pleasure because you think it is unimportant, you may want to re-think this.  Why is pleasure  unimportant, yet working hard and achievement so very important? Working hard gives you lots of stress. Ecstasy reminds us of the bliss of existence and alleviates stress.  It is worth a lot of money, yet is available for free if we take the time to cultivate it.  Productivity is what we have been taught is important by society...the ambitions of the masculine energy being out of balance with pleasure. The Feminine aspect is pure pleasure. 


We are in transition now to move from one of the darkest periods into a Golden era.  We will do this by recognizing the control that has been keeping us from knowing our own powers.  We each have the only true connection to Source there is...through our Selves.  Through that Self, we are as a drop of water that re-connects to the Ocean of Source-Being.  There is only one of us there, and the vastness is indescribable. Being only One, there are no rules.  There is only exploration.


Imagine you are the One Infinite, and there is no other.  What rules will you employ?  For what purpose?  Must you save yourSelf from yourSelf?  Why would you ever consider limiting your own ecstasy? It seems to me that ecstasy would be quite the natural pursuit of the One Being, in limitless amounts and forms. Ecstasy is something that may be considered an original thought of Source, and at the basis of our Being.

Sex becomes a release of all blockages that prevent you from becoming one with another human being.  All shame, guilt, and fear is set aside to experience yourself and your partner as Divine.  You begin the journey of remembering your true Self as Source. An original thought of this Universe may be - two returning to One-ness through union, and individuating again, to feel the ecstasy over and over again. It requires "separation".

A path to Divinity is truly a church.  I can imagine there being nothing more "sacred" than the Awakening to One-ness, the Infinite Source Being, and the Rapture.  Society will argue that sex cannot be part of God, but that is far from the Truth.  It is an amazing ecstasy that is part of our totality and wholeness.

I am honored to have the job of helping to re-instate this joy to humanity in whatever way I am able.  There should be an institute of sexual ecstasy, but you notice there is no such thing.  The only possible way to teach is through a church setting, and society does not recognize this yet.  Those that stand for the sacredness of sexuality are bold and daring revolutionaries that know something beyond the stifling limitations that society has been forced to accept.

Gay people have had to stand up for themselves as sexually free individuals through an immense war against them.  Heterosexuals do not realize that they are stifled in their own closets, and have not acknowledged their own true sexuality. They hide many desires and tendencies that are part of a natural curiosity and creativity. Many heterosexual people I know do not admit to their true sexual natures.  It is simply an area of extreme judgement in which few are willing to stand for their rights to be respected.  It is an area of extreme insanity!  We must begin by finding awareness of this situation in ourselves.
Nine million gay and lesbian children commit suicide yearly as a result of non-acceptance. These are our beloved children.  This is true insanity.  Hetero-sexuals are as much in the closet as gays, but do not see it. They simply stifle themselves, hide the truth,  and live with it. This is the source of ridiculous amounts of suffering. Who is brave enough to stand for sanity?

Personally, I love being in a situation where I am 100% honest about my sexuality.  Not many can do this.  I truly believe in my work as an agent of the Divine, and feel blessed and protected.  I will speak to people in the grocery store or anywhere I go about female ejaculation, one of the primary repressions that provides so much ecstasy for men and women.  I'm thinking of Johnny Appleseed, planting seeds everywhere.

As a teenager, I experienced sexuality as the most beautiful thing on the planet.  I am finally able to be in a position as a Priestess of my own free church to teach and implement some of what I have learned. I could not be happier to have this job. I would hope for each of you to find your most joyful expression of who you are and what you want to share with the world.